Man and Women should walk hand in hand, lend a hand to each other, touch caress and fondle each other. The hands and sand are very subtle and versatile. The sand spreads across the whole of concrete and help in creating a perfect bond. Similarly the hands and tongue can combine to undertake a stimulating voyage over the physiology to kindle fire and chemical transformation and bonding and what not? Real marriage is what happens as a result of this bonding. Today marriage is a rule and very rarely does the bonding take place later. This is partly because of the ignorance and the over dependence on marriage as a contract which has nothing to do with reality apart from being a ritual. Even without marriage couples can lead a fulfilling and trustworthy life provided they bond well.

In the preparation of concrete mixing plays a vital role. Even as the ingredients are added one by one sequentially, mixing starts. Finally water is added and the mixture is left to set. Similarly in the case of couples communication has to be there on and off. Without communication couples cannot mingle with each other and enjoy sex as a holistic experience. Sex has to be more of a psychological episode than physiological. Today sex is more of a physical encounter that gives only sensual pleasure. Communication is an ongoing process and has to be encouraged always. As mixing is important in concrete communication is important in life. Ideal communication is more about listening than talking. So communication can be kept alive either by talking or proactive listening. Mixing plays a major role in the synthesis of concrete. It also adds to the dynamic and synergistic values of concrete. Similarly communication plays a vital role in the synthesis of a holistic personality.

In the human physiology legs are large and powerful and helps only bring stability and helps move about and position oneselves (of course we can play football too!). The versatility is limited. Similarly stones in concrete act as buffering agent and brings strength and stability to the concrete. There is not much of dynamism associated with these two constituents though they appear as the base on which the structure is built.

What has sex to do with water? Sex is all fire and water is also born out of fire. In concrete the ingredients are added in a definite proportion and in a sequential manner. It is the versatility of the ingredients the right proportion the sequence in which they are added, coupled with the mixing that helps it to blend and solidify into such a strong compound. Similarly in love making the various events have to follow in the right sequence and in the right proportion. In concrete there is a particular time to add the water. Similarly in love making the act of intercourse has to be properly timed. Otherwise it be become a bad experience for the partner. In as much as water is not present in set concrete sex should not be carried through the day. One should not live for sex but sex should complement life.

It may be a little intriguing how head can do business with steel. Usages like steely nerves, ironman, ironlady etc are common. This means nothing but a sound reasoning that always prevail upon emotions. Emotions are an essential part of our daily life and very often we get carried away. The problem starts there. Where head (sound reasoning) rules, integration results. Where emotion rules, disintegration results. Women are basically emotional in nature and therefore it is that rarely do they make great leaders. At home problems will keep popping up regularly and always sound reasoning has to prevail for the steadfastness of human relationship. In concrete it is the steel that can remain independent, strong and offer stability and take both compressive and tensile load. Similarly for life to be steady and smooth sound reasoning should always take the upperhand. In reference here is true sound reasoning based on reality and not unfounded ego based reasoning. In today's world even among men this quality is rare. The reason is perhaps they have all become slaves to belief systems and lost the art of free thinking.

In life emotions guided by sound reasoning is the key to right actions, fulfillment and happiness. On the other hand misguided emotions can create havoc.

If something goes wrong with a relationship, by cross checking you can find whether some faculties remained silent or out of proportion or out of order and proper remedial measures can be taken.